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TRUE MEANING OF LOVE

LOve is such a strange word... how can we describe it???? if you ask me myself, the only thing that i could do is to find in the dictionary (except that i'm so lazy just to flip the dictionary pages alone..) well anyway, let us try to find out what love is actually???

A feeling of strong attachment induced by that which delights or commands admiration; preeminent kindness or devotion to another; affection; tenderness; as, the love of brothers and sisters.-(hah! i do have the decency to open a dictionary.. well electronic one actually but it's still count!)

 

Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love become as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable. (so this is what Bruce Lee said, huh?)

Love is a tender plant; when properly nourished, it becomes sturdy and enduring, but neglected it will soon wither and die. ~Hugh B. Brown (don't ask me who he is, i'm as clueless as you are)

Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day. ~Nicholas Sparks (ah--- one of the best romantic novel author alive)

Love is not simply a feeling of romantic excitement; it is more than a desire to marry a potential partner; it goes beyond intense sexual attraction; it exceeds the thrill at having “captured” a highly desirable social prize. Real love is an expression of the deepest appreciation for another human being; it is awareness of his or her needs and longings- past, present and future. It is unselfish, giving and caring. ~Dr. James C. Dobson (what a doctor knows about love, anyway? oh! maybe he's a psychiatrist or something)

SEE!!! everyone has his/ her own way to describe love.. famous martial art actor, a guy ( don't know who he is), an author and even a doctor( someone would've thought that a doctor doesn't have a life.. but see!!) the point is, whoever you are, whatever you wear, wherever you are from, though love is universal, it's up  to OURSELVES to decide our own definition of love!! who cares about those famous people, everyone deserves to love and to be loved, and one more thing, even if you don't know what love is, you will know it someday when you meet the 'one' for you... the one each that will teach you the definition of a strange word, L.O.V.E

only you- you are the one for me..

      Every day, i wake with the longingness of you. Your lovely face, your soft skin, your tender touch and your melodious voice. Though i keep trying to put this feeling, the feeling towards you distant from me, but knowing how the sWeet memory between us is going to be lost, i chickened out. You are the best thing that had ever happened to me. I remember the first sight , first time i put my eyes on you, you were looking at me, certain sadness and loneliness were shown on your face and i was determined to make all of that disappear. I was glad for the first time that we talked. I keep on Remembering our first conversation. The first time that we walked together, our first date. I have never this kind of feeling with anyone else. For me, i would never want anytHing to replace it.  Using past tense to describe  you is hurtful. I never want to have to remember you, i want to you to be at my side forever. As a distant memory, i fear for the day that you are going to disappear from my mind. For that day would be the last of my remaining bits of happiness. You are my life and living without you is agonizing. Even now, people keep on saying that love passes on, that new love will come. But i do not think that would work for me. Me and you, it is not love, it is beyond that. Say any word that would describe how my life blossomed into a field of flower with you bY my side. Adoration, infaTUATion, admiration. My feelings for you is even greater than that. Out of everything, out of other uncertainties, i am certain of one thing. you had left me, my side but i will never forget you, will keep on remembering you for you, you are the only one for me..

ETERNAL LOVE...

Since that day,
the day that you left,
I keep asking myself
what am i?
what is my purpose of living?
i might never find it out

i was happy,
it was a really a long time ago,

the moments that i shared with you,

as the sun shines,

and the wind breezes,

so do our love,

always, that i hope that the moments will last

Passing days,

i moved one
but,
you just stay and there you wait,

can't i stay with you?

all i feared

as time goes by,

my memories, our memories,

they will all fade someday,

My feelings for you was so strong,

it still is,

no one can deny it,

but time really do goes by..

For how much...

for how long i could be in denial,

i can't never fight it,

oh how i hope it's going to last

never there will time,

that i will forget you,

still,

i will put it in faith

that our separation is not going to be forever,

promise me,

that we would be together

in the heaven....

FOR THE PEOPLE WHO LOST THE ONE THAT THEY LOVES, BELIEVE!! THOUGH DEATH HAD SEPARATED YOU, IT'S NOT A LASTING SEPARATION, FOR YOU WILL BE REUNITED AND FOR NOW......LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST.. FOR THAT WHAT HE/SHE WANTS YOU TO HAVE...

love anime (2)

Continue with what i had left, i'm going to list more love animes (well, not entirely love animes but also revolve on other things while having 'love' as one of the aspects present)!!

1.ROMEO x JULIET

The story though carries some resemblance with the original piece of romeo and juliet by shakespeare, it is still a good anime altogether. The story revolves on Juliet, who lives on as a guy named odin, or more precisely Red whirlwind who helps the citizens of Neo Verona. She was brought up as a male to hide her identity as the princess of the Capulet house. She then encounter a  nobleman, Romeo de Montague, man supposedly from Montague family who had overthrown the Capulet house and killed juliet's parents. They, however fall in love with each other and though both sides of the family opposes to their relationship particularly Montague, they keep on. Will their love lasts? such a tragedic love anime... i cry at the ends...

2.ANGEL BEATS

Otonashi yuzuru woke up in a strange place, having no memory and then later found out out that he was dead. He then was forced by yuri the  leader of battlefight, to join the organization against so-called angel and to rebel on the god. They were all, had a rough life when they were alive and so begrudged the god for it. They believed that the angel or later known as Tenshi are there to make them disappear, to move on and be reborn again. throughout the anime, we can see how they are trying to fight the angel with weapons, guns and many other things. It was however, interesting to see the friendship, the fun of school life, and also development of love that is shown in this anime. Having packed with comedies and tear-jerking  moment (also brutality), this anime would provide a good entertainment in every episode.

.3ITAZURA NA KISS

Aihara Kotoko, having developed a feeling towards Irie Naoki since 3 years decided finally to confess to him. he then coldly rejected her. but then, it doesn't stop there for when Kotoko's house is destroyed in an earthquake, she had to move and live under the same roof as irie. the live together while kotoko keep on pestering irie until finally, Irie accepted her and they are married. what is interesting in this anime is that how persistent kotoko in pursuing her love. the anime is so funny while there is not an episode where you would not laugh. the ending, gave the warmness inside of me and this is certainly a good anime to watch if you enjoy  romantic comedy.. there is a korean drama of the adaptation of the manga, Mischievous kiss but let's just discuss about it another time..

love anime...(1)

Hey guys!!! one of my many hobbies is watching japanesse anime.. there are many animes and most of them are good..
i especially in favor of love animes.. many i mean there are tonnes of them which are really good and sometimes touches my heart... i would like to list most of the anime that i love and would not mind watching anytime..

1.FULL MOON WO SAGASHITE

The story revolves around mitsuki, a girl who are pursuing her dream in becoming a singer. she is an orphan, having lost both of her parents. she then was taken care by her grandmother. while she was at the orphanage, she met a boy, eichi sakurai who is her best friend. then the boy confessed his love towards mitsuki before departing to america with his adopted family. having yet to reply the love confession, mitsuki starts putting up dream to be a singer so that they both can meet again after pursuing each other dream. it;s not a really an easy task as mitsuki herself is inflicted with a tumour on a throat, sarcoma and therefore is unable to sing loudly. one day, two shinigamis (soul reaper) arrived and declaimed that one year onward, mitsuki is going to die. mitsuki, determined, went to audition and with the help of takuto, one of the shinigami, take on the body of a sixteen years old with the name of full moon. she then works herself very hard  so that her songs can reach eichi in america.

2.LA CORDA D'ORO PRIMO PASSO

Kahoko hino, is a general department student  in SEISO high school, an established music academy. totally lacks of any talents in playing musical instrument, she met  a fairy  named lily who granted her a magic violin which enables her to play any music pieces. she then was forced to enter a musical competitions among other talented musicians. and though  she had no talents, her perseverance allow her to compete in the competition while providing encounters with many boys.(well,she's not a playgirl or anything, do not get it wrong).

3.GINBAN KALEIDOSCOPE

Tazusa sakurano, a skating queen of the ice rink is known for her temper (i mean not like scary stepmom or anything but she tends to have nerve breakdowns among reporters) and her occasional failures at the competitions. one day, she was possesed by a canadian ghost, Pete Pumps who died from a plane crash. they were to live with each other  for 100 days. Along the 100 days, Pete taught her  how to skate earnestly and to follow her dream to compete in Torino winter olympic. Along the days, though they fought a lot, they eventually fall in love and finally parted at the end. such a funny and at the same time sad love anime.

to be continued......

UNREQUITED LOVE

LOVE is such a great emotion.. when we fell hopelessly in love no matter what every one of us wants it to  be a mutual one.. that the other side is having the same feeling as we did... but live is not a sweet fairy tale. here in our life, horses do not grow wings and fly, it's not always sunshine in everyday of our life, and we certainly can't hope that we get everything that we want to.. if we try to delve deeper into this 'love' thing, we know that there must be something, some factors that have we developing this kind of feeling towards other person.. what is it? could it the personality? the physical appearance? how the person carries herself among others.. or maybe she's just someone that we like..and love.. whatever is it? a person would even go the extent of changing himself, his personality just to attract someone that he loves.. but nothing could be done if  the person that we like is having the same feeling.. but towards other people.. then we try to compare our own attributes with the other person.. when we found out that the, person is somewhat, somehow is no better than us, we start putting up hopes.. that she's going to leave that person and then our chance with her haven't yet lost.. but if the person somehow is better than us.. we give up.. knowing that she's with a better person, we relent it.."i know that she's better off without me pestering her", doubtfulness towards our own self.. love is a crazy and a magical thing that happens to us, human and to be honest, i would like to say that we are bornt with attributes that what makes our own self an individual.. weaknesses and strengths that each of us possesses are unique.. and another thing! even if you found that the person that you likes did not reciprocate your feeling.. just bear in mind that if she's really the 'one' for you, love will somehow find its way magically and if it's not, then you will someone better, if not now maybe in the future, who will love just the way you are...